怎样抓住男人的心

Actually many women do not understand men so well. They are always dreaming for love, crazily in love and losing themselves over love. Therefore, it is said that women are “born for love”.

If you want to gain a man’s heart and become the princess in your own love fairy tale, you need to pay attention to the following tips:

1.外形要显示底蕴：你的形象透视着你的审美观，你的发式是否精神，你的衣服是否得体，你的品味和自信是否在外形里得以诠释。

Your appearance should indicate a fine temperament: others will know your taste for beauty by your attire. Try to make sure your hair style looks good, your dress fits you properly and your taste as well as confidence can be sensed through your appearance.

2.外形的细节处，恰恰吸引男人的眼睛。你可以不化妆，那样显得自然而自信，但如果化妆，就要精致而为。香水不要太浓，男人永远欣赏淡雅的香味。胸部的花边，一定要用精致的，干净的，高档的。

A woman’s detailed appearance is appealing to men. You can choose not to wear makeup for the sake of looking natural, expressing a greater sense of confidence. Or, if you choose to wear it, please wear it carefully. Remember never to pour on your perfume, for men always love the smell of a light fragrance and as for the lace on your breast, make it exquisite, clean and of superior quality.

3.外形之外，就是内涵，男人对女人的期望，就是要合作，要支持，要坚定。这三个字，是打开男人之心的钥匙，否则，女人很可能会“为爱而狂，为爱而生”。

Apart from your outward appearance is your inward appearance. Men expect women to be cooperative, supportive and determined. These three key words are crucial to opening a man’s heart, the absence of which would cause a woman to become infatuated with love.

如果你在婚姻中却并不幸福，以下的问题，一定会帮你走到阳光里：

If you have an unhappy marriage, the following questions will definitely help you to analyze your problem.

1.Do you give your husband complete freedom in his business affairs, and do you refrain from criticizing his associates, his choice of a secretary, or the hours he keeps? Do you try your best to make your home interesting and attractive?

在你的丈夫奔忙于事业时你是否给他足够的自由？你是否干涉他选择秘书或是反对他的作息时间？你是否尽力让家里充满乐趣和魅力？

2.Do you vary the household menu so that he never quite knows what to expect when he sits down to the table? Do you have an intelligent grasp of your husband’s business so you can discuss it with him helpfully?

你是否经常变换家里的菜谱，这样每餐前都让他有所期待？你是否了解他的事业并能献计献策？

3.Can you meet financial reverses bravely, cheerfully, without criticizing your husband for his mistakes or comparing him unfavorably with more successful men? Do you make a special effort to get along amiably with his mother or other relatives?

在生意上遭遇逆境时，你是否能表现勇敢和乐观，而不去指责他的错误或者拿他同更成功的人比较？你是否尽力去善待他的母亲和亲人？

4.Do you dress with an eye for your husband’s likes and dislikes in color and style? Do you compromise little differences of opinion in the interest of harmony?

你是否在装扮自己时投其所好? 你是否学会做必要的妥协？

5.Do you make an effort to learn games your husband likes, so you can share his leisure hours? Do you keep track of the day’s news, the new books, and new ideas, so you can hold your husband’s intellectual interest?

你是否了解丈夫的爱好，并能同他共度闲暇时光？你是否与时俱进，了解时事，从而知道他最新的关注？