宾馆床单被罩清洗报价:怎样捕获男士的风格

许多男人看起来很遭罪，其实并不需要这样。不是因为看上去乱，有些男人“乱”的看起来也很不错（但大多数不是这样）。这是风格的问题。我们大部分人都想要或者需要更多的了解它。这里有些让你获取它的方法。

Personal “brand”

个人的“品牌”

First. What is your personal brand? What are five words that describe you? Ask your friends for a few words to describe you. That is your current style. If that doesn’t work for you, what do you want instead? List those words.

首先，你自己的风格是什么？哪五个词可以形容你？让你的朋友用一些词来形容你。他们所说的就是你现在的风格。如果你觉得这些都不符合你，你想要用什么来代替？列出那些词。

How conventional are you? Do you take risks? Are you serious? Playful? My personal brand has a lot of humor, and I am pretty comfortable being the center of attention, so I can get away with wearing a bright pink sport coat, or four different patterns (coordinated, of course), but I fade into the woodwork if I’m wearing a grey suit, white shirt and red tie. That’s me. Who are you?

你有多循规蹈矩？你冒过险吗？你是严肃的？活跃的？我最大的特点就是很幽默，我很乐意成为众人的焦点，所以我可以穿着亮粉色的运动服，或者有四种不同的风格（当然，看起来很协调）而不被指责，但如果我穿一件灰西服，白衬衫，搭配一条红领带，就不会有人关注我。这就是我。那么你呢？

Look for other styles

寻找其他风格

Next, find magazines that speak to your style. Look at the ads and the photos. What are the guys wearing? Imagine yourself in that. Would that look good on you? (some of the things in magazines are to be avoided, by the way) Read the style articles, too, but don’t always believe them when they say that this or that trend is coming back. “Hats” have been coming back for almost 50 years, but have never quite recovered since the 1950s. Don’t buy one because they are trendy, buy one because you like it.

接着，找些内容符合你风格的杂志。看上面的广告和照片。那些人穿着什么？想象你穿着它。穿上它，你会看起来不错吗？（顺便说下，杂志上有些地方要避开）看关于时尚的文章，同样当它们说这种或那种潮流回归的时候也不要一直相信它们。“帽子潮流”回归了差不多50年，但自二十世纪五十年代开始就从没有重获新生。所以不要买随大流的产品，买你喜欢的。

Go to a store (that fits your style…) and browse. I know, we’re guys, we prefer hunting over gathering. So, think of this as scouting for your prey. Take a friend whose judgment you trust and run ideas by him / her, but make your own decisions! (BTW, you will make mistakes. That’s OK, that’s how you learn…) If you don’t have a friend you trust with this stuff, walk up to someone else in the store and ask his or her opinion about the shirt / suit / shoes you are wearing. This is a fun way to meet people, too.

去商店（符合你风格的）逛逛。我知道，我们是男生，所以我们喜欢就一个什么都有的地方挑。所以，把它当做你的猎物来侦察。带上一个你信任他的评价并且能听从他想法的朋友，但要自己做决定。（顺便说下，你可能会做错决定，但没关系，这样你才能学到东西）如果你在这方面没有信任的朋友，走向商店里的其他人，问问他们对于你穿上的衣服有什么看法。这同样也是一种认识人的有意思的方法。

Get some professional help

获得一些专业帮助

Find a knowledgeable salesperson in the store and enlist his / her help. Remember, they may be on commission, so they may want to sell you stuff you don’t really want, you will need to use judgment here too. A good salesperson won’t do this, preferring to build a relationship instead. You want that too, so that they will tell you about upcoming sales and offer to put stuff aside for you. This is VERY important if you are in any way a non-standard size (says the guy who is 6’5″). Anyway…ask him / her what colors and cuts look best on you. Not everyone looks good in all colors and patterns. Blue is great for me, dark grey not so much. Similarly, bold patterns make people look bigger and broader, which is great if you are 5’6″ and 120 pounds, but not if you are 6’0″ and 350 pounds.

找商店里有专业知识的售货员并且获得他的帮助。记住，他们可能会为了获取提成而卖给你一些你并不需要的东西，所以在这里你需要有自己的判断。一个好的售货员不会这么做，他们倾向于与你之间建立一种关系。你同样想要那样东西，他们会告诉你将会有的价格并且帮你把用不着的东西放一边。如果你怎样都不是标准身材（指那些不是6‘5“的人），这是很重要的。不管怎样，问问他什么颜色和剪裁最适合你。并不是所有人穿任何颜色、款式的衣服都好看。蓝色最适合我，但深灰色就不适合。同样的，轮廓突出的款式会使人看起来更宽大，如果你是 5’6″并且只有120磅，那挺不错的，但如果你是6’0″并且350磅，那还是算了吧。

Lastly, enjoy the process. There is a science, as well as an art, and you can learn both. Don’t take it seriously (except for those few occasions when you must, like funerals).

最后，享受这个过程。你可以学习到一门科学，同样也是一门艺术。还有，别太严肃了（除非是一些必要的场合，比如葬礼）。

By the way, that is me in the photo above, no stock photo could capture the mood quite right….

顺便说下，上面那张照片里就是我，没有存下来的照片能准确表达我的心情……