把男朋友撩硬的小动作:你忙吗？

一篇很有意思的文章!(Embedded image moved to file: pic19954.gif)            >      以前跟朋友討論過什麼是[無常],                                         >                                                                            >    事實上[無常]就是[正常];                                                 >                                                                            >    發生在別人身上稱為[正常],                                               >                                                                            >    發生在自己及親人身上就是[無常],                                         >                                                                            >    我們常看到新聞播報墜機事件感覺蠻正常的,                                 >                                                                            >    一但有自己親人或是本身搭上那班飛機,                                     >                                                                            >    我們就會感嘆人生無常了.                                                 >                                                                            >    很少人能知道自己生命何時到終點,                                         >                                                                            >    也很少人能知道何時會結束一個物品,                                       >                                                                            >    一件事情,一個緣分,或是一個生命.                                         >                                                                            >    所以佛家講求活在當下,不論現狀如何,                                      >                                                                            >    好好的去享受這一個時刻所遇見的人、事、物…                               >                                                                            >    一個片刻接著一個片刻,累積成為人生,                                      >                                                                            >    不論經歷是好是壞,這都是我們獨一無二的一生,                              >                                                                            >    任何人也不能取代的.                                                     >                                                                            >    最近看到一本書在解說[忙]這個字,寫的很貼切,你忙嗎?                       >                                                                            >    [忙]這個字拆開就是[心亡],                                               >                                                                            >    如果我們對某些事某些人的心已經死了,就會用[忙]來當作藉口.                >    常常有人會因為忙;而漸漸疏離朋友;因為忙而冷淡了親人;                     >                                                                            >    因為忙而忘了自己的健康,                                                 >                                                                            >    這代表我們對朋友,親人以及自己的心已經死了,                              >                                                                            >    因此我們就會用[忙]來當藉口,越忙則心死的越徹底!                          >                                                                            >        ~~或許明日太陽西下倦鳥已歸時~~                                      >                                                                            >        ~~你將已經踏上舊時的歸途~~                                          >                                                                            >        ~~人生難得再次尋覓相知的伴侶~~                                      >                                                                            >        ~~生命中就難捨藍藍的白雲天~~                                        >                                                                            >    忙碌的生活,常常使我們錯失了很多機會,                                    >                                                                            >    讓我們浪費掉生命中很多美好的事物,甚至失去了難得的知己.                  >                                                                            >    如果有一天我們事業有成,從一名小職員努力爬升到總經理的職位,              >                                                                            >    從一樓升到一百樓坐在總經理室,看著接不完的訂單,                          >                                                                            >    數不盡的鈔票,以及手底下數百名辛勤的員工,                                >                                                                            >    忽然看見窗外一架747客機衝過來,                                          >                                                                            >    裡面的大鬍子機長還跟我們做鬼臉的時候,                                   >                                                                            >    這時心裡一定很~~~#$%^&*!!                                               >                                                                            >    我們才會發覺辛勤了一輩子,卻換來水,火,土三葬,                            >                                                                            >    (爆炸時先用火烤,再來大樓倒塌被土掩,最後消防隊來灌水)                    >                                                                            >    驚覺人生無常時已經來不及了.                                             >                                                                            >    美國911事件中,有幾位罹難者在臨終前打了電話給最親的家人,                 >                                                                            >    表達的無非是對家人的愛,我想那些人以及他們的家人一定很遺憾,              >                                                                            >    不能多一點時間好讓他們表達心中無限的愛!                                 >                                                                            >    你忙嗎?                                                                 >    撥出時間陪你敬愛的人吧~~                                                >                                                                            >    想他(她)時，                                                            >                                                                            >    打個電話給他(她)吧~~                                                    >                                                                            >    珍惜現在所有，別讓時間悄悄從你手中溜走。                                >  (Embedded image moved to file: pic18756.gif)                              >                                                                             

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