word输入法不见了:如何吸引一个女孩

Makeher feel attractiontowards you让她察觉自己对你的的魅力

It has been noted here in the past that this is not enough toguarantee pulling a girl. The other two phases are equally important,but she must be attracted to you first.人们都认为保证吸引一个女孩是不够的。其他的两个时期同样重要，但是首先她得对你有吸引力。

If a girl finds out that you are attracted to her, before she isattracted to you, then you are creepy and sleazy. If, once she isattracted, she realises that you are also attracted, t@hen you are theperfect guy.如果一个女孩发现自己在你关注她之前就已经被你吸引，那么你就是危险的且她会避免同你接触。一旦她被吸引她就会意识到你也是吸引人的，那么你就是一个优秀的男孩。

Therefore, during the ATTRACT stage, you should only communicate apassing interest in her. You are playing with her for your ownamusement, and she is holding your attention only for the time being.所以，在这个诱惑的阶段，你就应该只与她交谈些流动的兴趣话题。你只是与她玩一个自己的娱乐游戏，并且她只是暂时吸引了你的注意。

Attraction is raised by demonstrating the following qualities:吸引力应具备如下所提出的的素质

Uniqueness独一无二

Social Prize (Confidence, Leadership, Authority, Popularity)社会经验(自信，领导能力，权威性极受欢迎)

Sexuality性感

Lack of Desperation足够乐观坚强

(These correspond to four of Style’s attraction switches)以上对应四种吸引力的转换

These forums are littered with ways to do all of these. TD’s 25Points are essential for Lack of Desperation, and contribute toSocial Prize. Sexuality at this stage is most easily demonstratedthrough clothing and intense sexual eye contact. Most canned openersand routines certainly demonstrate Uniqueness.这些论坛以散乱地方式做着这些，TD的25点是那些乐观且对社会有贡献的人必须的。在这个阶段性感通过衣着和不经意间的眼神交流很容易就能显示出来。大部分的罐头开瓶器和例程当然就证明了独一性。

Attraction building stuff is Cocky + Funny, or ‘Teasing’ as welike to call it on this side of the pond. Negs, Busting, DHVRoutines, and certain mini cold-reads.吸引力建设是神气活现而又滑稽的，或者说正如我们喜欢从这一方面称恶作剧。否定，破坏，乏味以及确切的微小冷读。

The routines that I personally use in this phase, are: GirlCode/Best Friends, Sincere Compliment, Good Girl Face/Bad Girl Face,Lying Game, the Bad Girl Test, the Tranny Test. Almost any goodcanned opener should raise attraction too.这个我个人在这阶段所用的顺序是girlcode，好朋友，真诚的赞扬。好女孩的脸面坏女孩的脸面，撒谎游戏，坏女孩检测，变性者检测。几乎任何好的罐头开瓶器应该引起吸引力。

Kino should be fun and flirty during this stage – anythingdominant and push-pull is great. The handshakes game is awesome.High-fives, particularly when you whip your hand away. Tickling andpoking. Caveman kino too.在这一阶段kino应该是有趣且打情骂俏的。任何占优势的事情和推拉是伟大的。握手游戏是令人恶心的，击掌，尤其是当你拉出自己的手的时候。呵痒和捅。挖掘人类也一样。

You can even kiss girls, with tongues, at this stage, but don’tmake the mistake of thinking this means you are in a later phase. Ifyou kiss in the attract phase, it doesn’t mean she’s going homewith you, it doesn’t mean she wants to see you again.这阶段你甚至可以用舌头亲女孩子，但是不要犯想着用下一阶段的方法的错误。如果你在这一吸引阶段接吻那并不意味着她就属于你，也不表示她还期待与你再续前缘。

Most guys have developed a keen sense of when a girl is attractedto them, but they don’t realise that the other two phases areimportant. So when you spot the girl is attracted, it’s not gameover, it’s time to move on to the next phase.许多小伙都养成了一个热情的感觉，即意识到那个女孩是他的喜欢的。但他，但他们并没有意识到其他的两个阶段同样重要。因此当你发现一个你想要的女孩，游戏还没有结束，而是该到下一个阶段了。

It’s easier to spot when you’re going too far. At some point,maybe you’ll see in her eyes that she’s wondering why thisso-cool guy is even talking to her, or your C+F busting is startingto hurt. That’s when you know you are overdue to go on to the nextstage. Next: Communicate that you are attracted to her…很容易就发现你们之间渐行渐远。某些点上，也许你会看到那些女孩眼里的疑惑：为什么这么酷的男孩会主动找自己交谈。或者你的开始伤害。就是在你知道该是进入下一阶段的时候。接下来，交谈你为她所倾倒