斩赤红之瞳之黑暗系统:Every living person has problem

Every living person has problem

What is the secret of strong people that enables them to succeed? Why do they survive the hard times while others are defeated by them? Why do they win while others lose? Why do they soar while others sink? The answer is very simple. It’s all in how they perceive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problem-free life is an illusion. Accept this fact.

Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and valleys. No one is up all the time, nor is anyone down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.

You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your responses. You may not have chosen your difficult time, but you can choose how you react to it. For instance, what is the positive reaction to a terrible financial setback? In this situation, would it be a positive reaction to run away? Escape through alcohol, drug, or even suicide? No! Such negative reactions only produce greater problems by promising a temporary solution to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to make it begin. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem of life, then in fact you do control the effect the problem will have on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tougher. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.

In a word, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they’ve chosen to react positively to their problems. Tough times never last long, but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. Storms always give way to the sun. Winter always gives way to spring. Your storm will pass. Your winter will go. Your problem will be solved.